Is this a 'I've left my partner, and going to screw them over' or a 'my partner has sharing order with a previous spouse and I am protecting them' post?
No my partners ex is trying to get more than she's entitled to, which is going to be very very costly!!!! He has now received a final pension forecast from veterans uk and it uses the term invaliding pension, as you can understand he is trying very hard to keep the costs down and stay out of court. After agreeing to 50/50 split of all assets she is now demanding more and we wondered if his pension now being an invaliding one made any difference to the final outcome.Is this a 'I've left my partner, and going to screw them over' or a 'my partner has sharing order with a previous spouse and I am protecting them' post?
I couldn't agree more, I actually think that an ex shouldn't be able to touch their spouses pension, I say go earn your bloody own. I never touched my ex's pension he earned it it's his period.Jarrod will be along in a minute to offer his opinion of women like that.
Just in case he doesn`t he thinks they are scheming, lying, cheating, futhermuckers.
Thank-you very muchPretty sure AOS nailed it earlier. Here's a link to what I hope is relevant info for the OP:
Pretty sure AOS nailed it earlier. Here's a link to what I hope is relevant info for the OP:
2 year's why??
Totally agree with you NATO Standard 123, only she only lived with him for six years out of 26 cause she wanted to be near her mum, so he was married unaccompanied all those years, there's also a lot more to it than just that, yes she's entitled to something but my partner feels75% is unfair given that they had agreed otherwise at the start.
I'm helping him out cause he's asked me to, but everyone is entitled to they're opinion......... you have yours (which couldn't be further from the truth) nevertheless it's your opinion.
Sure, there's always more to it than a few lines on a website, but you've been with him for about 7% of his service and have taken charge of his dosh...clever move on your part getting your claws into a fella with a pension plus lump sum and now invalidity.
To be honest MU aint he worst thing that can happen to a Pad and often makes a lot of sense in some circumstance. It did for me hence buying a house in civvy strasse while I was in and both of us agreeing that due to family help, schooling, for the kids, etc. her staying back home was the way to go on some postings for me . I'm sure he coped on tours ( AKA an extreme version of MU!)
He's been in continued employment, and therefore salaried, for the last 28 years yet you talk about housing benefit? if he's been MA for so long why can't he sort out his own dosh. Can't he stand up for himself? seems like he managed to do it for 93% of the last 28 years, now all of a sudden he needs you to do it for him?