Infidelity - Could you accept it?

What would you do if your wife/husband cheated?

  • Bin them

    Votes: 69 61.1%
  • Try to forgive and forget

    Votes: 15 13.3%
  • Shag their sister/brother/ best friend

    Votes: 22 19.5%
  • Bury them under the patio

    Votes: 19 16.8%

  • Total voters
    113
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#1
One of my mates has just found out that his missus has been cheating on him. They've been married less than a year, and he's found out that it was going on both before and after their wedding.

Obviously he's pretty cut up about it, but he's talking about trying to make a go of it. Fair play to him, it's not my decision to make (thank fcuk!), but if I was in his position, I think I'd be out of there (or she'd be out of there!) in about 30 seconds flat.

If you found out that your other half had been cheating what would you do?

T_T
 
#6
shag her, all her mates, her sister and mother and any other females who were drunk enough or stupid enough to let me sexually abuse them, and then when caught say "whats good for the goose is good for the gander" ( what ever the f**k that means anyway)
and if she doesnt like it tell her to sling her hook as she's obviously a slag.
 
#7
Move to protect assets first and foremost, even though the other party is to blame, once married, they get half!!! FECK that!!!
 
#9
Not much danger of getting cleaned out with being married less than a year and (presumably) no kids yet.
Unfortunately it's second time around for both of them, and there is a house and kids too (the kids are from their first marriages though)
 
#12
I would not have a problem with it ...........so long as she is doing it with another woman and I can join in.
 
#13
End it.

Sever all connections.

Walk away, find a couch to sleep on in somebody's house, pick myself up, save the money and enjoy my freedom.

**** the other person. Don't want to hear from them. Just pack a bag and walk out. Don't discuss it, don't try to see it through, don't deal with it. Just up and leave and don't come back and don't bother. Take everything that's yours. As soon as she/he slept with the other person, they terminated any kind of contract or trust you had. So don't waste time with anger or trying to justify it. Cut that turd loose.

Couple of months it'll start moving behind you, you'll feel a bit more fresh and you might even meet somebody else (if you can be arsed)
 
#14
End it.

Sever all connections.

Walk away, find a couch to sleep on in somebody's house, pick myself up, save the money and enjoy my freedom.

**** the other person. Don't want to hear from them. Just pack a bag and walk out. Don't discuss it, don't try to see it through, don't deal with it. Just up and leave and don't come back and don't bother. Take everything that's yours. As soon as she/he slept with the other person, they terminated any kind of contract or trust you had. So don't waste time with anger or trying to justify it. Cut that turd loose.

Couple of months it'll start moving behind you, you'll feel a bit more fresh and you might even meet somebody else (if you can be arsed)
That sounds like bitter experience talking. However, I do agree with you.
 
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#15
Happened to two ********* who I served with. Have to say that I thought it was funny as ****.
 
#16
I upped sticks and came to Czech Rep last June because of my, now, ex. After 6mths, I caught her with another guy, tried to address the reasons why she did what she did (and no, it wasn't cause of lack me not giving her the goods) and despite having some communication still, I doubt things will ever be the same again. But, despite what I went through, it opened other opportunities for me and added great experiences to my job cv and character.

Snakes with tits.

Besides, decent beer is about 1GBP for a half litre, pack of smokes not more than 3GBP. Just thought I'd drop that in ;)
 
#18
That sounds like bitter experience talking. However, I do agree with you.
Thankfully as a younger bloke I had more to fall back on and less to lose.

But I'm telling you this; losing your temper, trying to get revenge or trying to justify it or discuss what happened will only bring more pain and you will end up resenting the person more and more.

Walking away and cutting it all off completely not only gives you a sense of dignity but it fucks the other person off beyond belief as they really are getting a slight kick out of your reaction. Not providing one is a better way of dealing with the situation.
 
#19
Unfortunately it's second time around for both of them, and there is a house and kids too (the kids are from their first marriages though)
I suggest you phone Jeremy Kyle - at least they may be able to make a few sheckles through TV appearances and follow up 'celebrity' engagements.
 
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