Dear arrsers, I find an acquaintance of mine is in a somewhat delicate situation. Allow me, if you will, to expand.. A young lady met with a gentleman who is a soldier in the fine British Army. They entered into an amorous relationship, after the start of which Miss A discovered that the Mr. B was already in a long term relationship with Miss C. Unwisely the affair continued on the rare occasions they were geographically close enough to meet. Recently she discovered that her usual Monthlies had not arrived and upon it being 4 weeks overdue she carried out a pregnancy test. This test turned out to be positive. Mr. B has since been avoiding all contact (somewhat late I fear) with Miss A and ignoring the current situation . My questions to you, the arrse community, are these; What (in your opinions) should everyone be doing about this? What happened to honesty, integrity etc? What advice can you give these two? Many thanks for your replies. R.J.