Couldnt think of anywhere eles to post this so NAAFI bar it is. Situation all fucked up as follows. My wee baby brother is getting married to a lovely girl. The wedding is towards the end of the month in Slovakia. The Mrs and I were suppossed to be going but I had to break the bad news today that not only was I paid late again but I was also paid short for about the third month running. He offered to stand me the airfare but that would have meant leaving the Mrs at home for the six days and I not prepared to do that. Now I feel like a cunt for not going but theres bugger all I can do about it. Funds are seriously depleated and I've got enough to pay the bills this month and not much breathing space. That being said the wedding present has already been paid for but what else can I get him by way of an appology. I was straight with him today but he is seriously pissed of at me, and since he's ds at breacon I'd prefer him not to be pissed of at me. all sensible suggestion are invited and flack is expected.