Last week Wifeinblack decided that she was going to plan all the meals for the next week. Last night she cooked a grown up meal that we all sat down and ateâ¦as a family! This morning I was told, as I was leaving, that my lunch was in a bag by the front door; I just opened the bag to see a big bowl of a nice homemade vege/tomato/bulgar with fennel seeds soup that tastes much better than it sounds, three small pitta breads, a bag of crisps, some olives and a choccy biccie. I appear to suddenly have a real wife. Can anybody advise me what is happening?