My hubby's been in 11 years. Before i met him 4 years ago i'd applied to join up. But getting to know him and what he did as a career, i retracted my application. (didnt want him to think i was some crazy stalker in the early days. lol) We now have 2 children and i know he is in for his full 22. But here's the thing, since having kids, all i seem to do is stay at home and bring them up and i just feel like im existing. Maybe i am jelous of him continuing his career whilst i havent been able to have one due to having kids. (both under 2) I feel like i made a mistake by retracting my application. I really wanted a career in the army but now feel i cant. Do you think i should stay a soldiers wife? Or do you think it'd be accepted/easy for me to join up, even with 2 kids.... Advise please, as mega confused! Thanks.