There is another thread about cufflinks which has strayed into the territory of how to define a Gentleman. So I thought I'd start another and ask how you define a Gentleman and whether you think you are or not. Two definitions I've heard are that a Gentleman never takes a pish in the shower - even if he is alone, and a Gentleman is only ever rude on purpose - I fail both of those tests. It has also been said that manners (or clothes) maketh the man but I've met some very well mannered, very well turned out sh1ts in my time and being a biker I've met many Gentlemen wearing leathers - not to mention clad in all sorts in the Army. So how do you define a Gentleman?