I left back in 2006 as a dirty BAT after doing only 5 years, but in the last 4 years I always think about re-joining, I even attended and passed officer selection and had the nod from the Royal Regiment of Scotland for sponsership. But in doing so ended up breaking up my long term relationship with my at the time fiancée as she just couldn't deal with it. My family hates the idea of me going back with Afghan on the go, but part of me feels it is something I need to do. So if I don't want to be disowned by my family what can I do? I've posted this in the NAAFI so you can all take the piss.