How were you caught out when you were playing away? The first time I was caught out when I was married, was with a shadow. Up a set of step ladders painting a ceiling in the front hall, my sister in law who I was shagging at the time came to visit, let herself in as normal and seeing me on the ladder grabbed my arse pulled me towards her and bit my cock through my jeans. All well and good she knew wife was in so nothing else. The downside, wife was in the next room, door open and she saw the shadow on the wall, caught hook line and sinker, when the roof settled back down on the house, suggested she deal with it or sod off. (she dealt with it unfortunately) I aint so soft nowadays if I get caught out I just tell em to leave.