since i come back, my bird hasnt stopped moaning at me and its doing my head in. Her dad died about 3weeks ago n last night i said to her she needs to get herself together and pack in all this crying about it. I told her shes 17 and she should be able todeal with this stuff. She got so mental when I said that, i had to kick her out my house she was doin my head in so bad. any advise?