hey everyone, I've just got my enlistment forms and am in the process of filling them in. Although I was really looking forward to starting Harrogate, which I start on September 9th, my mum is becoming really controlling of my application and im starting to consider not signing them and cancelling my application! I'm currently on an army preparation course and we were told yesterday by the staff that us that start harrogate soon can quit on friday. I went home and told my mum this and shes gone and phoned my army recruting office and twisted the story which im rather embarrased about and said that they have told us to quit (which isn't the case) Now when i go in tommorow, i'm probably going to get a horrid time from the staff and the sgt there (who to make things worse is a para). Im 16 years old and i want to be in control of my army application and what i do and i just want to leave the course so i can have 2 weeks to be with friends before i go to harrogate. she probably thinks she is doing the best for me but shes making me feel like a small child who she has to make all the decisions for and im starting to feel like if i sign these enlistment papers i'll be going into the army on her terms, and not mine and i dont want to get into the army knowing that the decisions made along the recruting process were not my decisions and were influenced by mum mum. what should i do???