Please don't let the lads offend you here, after all, they are mere bags of testosterone that have yet to be turned into the complete and high quality specimen that now greets you.
Perchance you have the time to visit with me some of the more salubrious corners of this wonderful world of arrse, including my very favourite 'unenlightened sanctum of cleanliness' (the dark broom cupboard).
I may have some delights for your to see and sample for your delectation.
Who the hell cares what these blokes say. She only wanted advice on weather she should jion or not. My advice is give it a go and see if it is for u or not. If u join the RAF good choice, but if ur looking at the army go for the intell corp, nursing corp, logistics corp, or the army air corp. Would suggest the royal engineers, but then most of these lads would probably have my head.