Well Posh_91, I must say that among the things you need to concentrate upon when applying to hold the Queen's commission in the British army is your spelling. Comments about spreading your favours, chasing senior ranks ........ are all entirely accurate and reasonable. I suggest, however, that you should, perhaps, be aware of all of these in any event if you are as pretty as you claim to be since we men are pretty simple. Specifically, I note that, in one of your earlier posts, you referred to "there" as shown in, for example "... very big chip on there shoulder ...". I suggest, most strongly, that you ensure that you use the correct spelling for THEIR or THERE, as applicabe at all times, including in your application. Further, you need to get into the habit of getting everything right. You have made a number of "typo's" in your posts on page one. Please forgive me - I have no wish to proof read what amounts to 10 pages of replies at this time. Inaccuracies such as those mentioned above will negate all your good intentions and your aspirations if they appear in your application. Your sex, sexuality and demeanour etc. will be entirely irrelevant as you won't be going to Sandhurst if you make an application as lacking in a demonstrably good command of the English language as your posts would suggest ! Good luck.