I have a problem. My son who is a quiet gentle chap, was involved in a fracas on the bus home with another kid from the same school. The school quite rightly take a dim view of this as do I, he has been punished and that's an end to the matter, except for this; When I asked him about it he was most upset, I enquired as to the nationality of the other kid; 'No he was white' 'Was he a redhead?' 'Yes' My problem is should I castigate him for losing his rag, or give him a few quid from the poor box for being upset by the smell of Fox piss? I was going to post this on the other half forum, but thought I'd get more sense here.