There is this mate of mine, married, appears happy on the surface, kids, the works. Charming bloke all things considered, reasonably good job (150K+), house etc. He is telling me that he loves his wife and kids but there isn't much happening in the sack. He met this bird at the gym, young, fit, seemingly unattached that is looking for a bit of fun and does not mind his being attached. I told him to be careful and not to get emotionally involved (he denies that he is, but constantly says how great she is etc) or it could all go horribly wrong for him, I have seen it happening before. It usually isn't for very long that the bird isn't minding attachments before she turns into a bunny boiler. What are your thoughts, given the above info, by all means let the banter fly as well, as it is in the NAAFI.