Hello all, im thinking of not speaking to my family anymore at least for a couple of years. They are trying to keep me down and for the last two years rubbishing my choice of enlisting. It really is unbearable as everytime i see them they come up with sly remarks about the Army and how i will be a murderer and hired killer. I have worked my ass off to get fit and after 2 rejected appeals was finally accepted the third in june 10, and for me shows me how much i want this and its my vocation. They wont accept this has made me a better person after previously having no goals or ambition, and i will never give it up and say i should only work for money not a fantastic lifestyle. Recently i have been ignoring phone calls from them because im focusing on positive goals and choices not negative. But they keep coming around banging on my windows and even once went into my back garden looking through my windows. For me this is unacceptable intrusive behaviour into my personal space, have any of you had any succeses disconnecting from family members?