Delayed Ejaculation

[REMEbrat]

I am a 44 year old healthy male and for the last 25 years I can have sex for around an hour using different positions and techniques. Last year my 14 year marriage ended and for the last 4-5 years our sex life had become very mundane, only a couple of positions used and when she had had enough she would speed things up so I would cum. I was worried with the lady I had a relationship with after my divorce that PE could have arisen in me but fortunately this wasn't so, we were able to have sex for 60-90 minutes OK. This relationship ended 3 months ago.
6 weeks ago I started seeing another woman and after seeing each other for 3 weeks we decided to have sex for the first time and from her perspective it was amazing, we had sex for 5 hours. I realise this is something most men would kill to be able to do but we didn't have sex for this long because of my incredible sexual stamina, it was because no matter how hard I tried or what I thought about my sexual feelings never went beyond 'good'.
The following morning we tried again and after 2 hours I stopped but didn't feel I had missed out on anything because I hadn't cum, I had enjoyed her orgasms at least as much as I enjoy my own. A couple of days ago we met up again a her house and exactly the same thing happened again sexually, 5 hours on the first night and an early finished session the following morning.

This has never happened to me before and has got me wondering if a medical condition could be the cause of this, a quick check online has raised the possibility of it being diabetes but can this condition develop with no changes in lifestyle or diet? If not what else might be cause of this?

Thanks, REMEbrat

 

[964ST]

Is your current (real) girlfriend feeling “deflated!”?

 

[Baz p.b.u.h. II]

“ I had enjoyed her orgasms at least as much as I enjoy my own”

Her what?

 

[wheel]

Beer Check , Pop corn Check.
Sit back and relax

 

[LepetitCaporal]

 

[vinniethemanxcat]

If 2 fingers up your bottom doesn't work, you're clinically dead

 

[FlotsamJetsam]

60-90 minutes? Are there men who last longer than five?

 

[PlasticCabDriver]

5 hours? Were you not rubbed red raw?

 

[J.A.S. Backpack]

Have you thought of middle aged tantric sex?

You can have sex for 12 hours, although the first 11 hours and 55 minutes is begging and trying to get your socks off, but after that it's great.

 

[jarrod248]

You taking antidepressants? They can cause it. I’ve not had sex that long in my lifetime I think.

 

[jarrod248]

I’m not sure I even remember sex.

 

[olafthered]

I’m not sure I even remember sex.

I wouldn't worry, I heard you found it a pain in the arrse.

 

[MARTOK]

I think a Mod should move this to The NAAFI Bar so we can give the OP the full benefit of our advice.

 

[LepetitCaporal]

I was once given a blood transfusion, (the yellow plasma stuff)...had a hard dong for over a week and it wouldnt go down
Couldnt even have a tug to get rid of it because i was hand cuffed to the bed, both hands
Agitation
Finally they pumped me heavy with doses of morphine and i cant remember the rest
2006
Have bien playing catch up ever since

 

[kimmi851]

There is another possible reason. It takes time to mesh with someone new normally (getting harder as your body ages). They can move differently, make strange sounds you aren't used to etc. Sometimes the less you like someone the easier you find good sex (because you are less worried about how they enjoy it or what they think about your body). Sometimes the very best sex is therefore with someone you absolutely despise. But it makes for lousy company the morning after, so long term is not actually a strategy for a great life.

Give it time, spend a little less time on the act and more on the run up just enjoying sensations and teaching one another what you both enjoy.

Now I am going to go away and drink a lot of whisky to make up for sounding so girly.

 

[tiger stacker]

I’m not sure I even remember sex.

Meat Tom Daley it’ll all come flooding back to you

 

[Aquavite]

I am a 44 year old healthy male and for the last 25 years I can have sex for around an hour using different positions and techniques. Last year my 14 year marriage ended and for the last 4-5 years our sex life had become very mundane, only a couple of positions used and when she had had enough she would speed things up so I would cum. I was worried with the lady I had a relationship with after my divorce that PE could have arisen in me but fortunately this wasn't so, we were able to have sex for 60-90 minutes OK. This relationship ended 3 months ago.
6 weeks ago I started seeing another woman and after seeing each other for 3 weeks we decided to have sex for the first time and from her perspective it was amazing, we had sex for 5 hours. I realise this is something most men would kill to be able to do but we didn't have sex for this long because of my incredible sexual stamina, it was because no matter how hard I tried or what I thought about my sexual feelings never went beyond 'good'.
The following morning we tried again and after 2 hours I stopped but didn't feel I had missed out on anything because I hadn't cum, I had enjoyed her orgasms at least as much as I enjoy my own. A couple of days ago we met up again a her house and exactly the same thing happened again sexually, 5 hours on the first night and an early finished session the following morning.

This has never happened to me before and has got me wondering if a medical condition could be the cause of this, a quick check online has raised the possibility of it being diabetes but can this condition develop with no changes in lifestyle or diet? If not what else might be cause of this?

Thanks, REMEbrat

Firstly, a very frank and honest post. If I may, can I ask, did your current girlfriend fellate you paying particular attention to the frenulum and the urethral meatus?
Can I suggest you get her to perform analingus on you whilst simultaneously masturbating you.
Failing that, get her to pish like a horse on your chest.

 

[jockparamedic]

Firstly, a very frank and honest post. If I may, can I ask, did your current girlfriend fellate you paying particular attention to the frenulum and the urethral meatus?
Can I suggest you get her to perform analingus on you whilst simultaneously masturbating you.
Failing that, get her to pish like a horse on your chest.

Well that finished me off.

 

[Conniesdad]

Well that finished me off.

I am still looking half of that up!

 

[tiger stacker]

Well that finished me off.

You should try lasting longer…..2 minutes is heehaw
Unless you’re 55>