I was wondering if someone could help me. My brother in his great manly way has managed to get the local slapper pregnant and shes keeping it. My brother is off to Iraq in a few months and i was wondering should the worst happen would the child get anything? I know there is a big difference between married and unmarried couples (sadly). How does the benefits work for children who are not in his care? Everyone hopes their loved ones will return, but its best to prepare for the worst so you can relax when it doesnt happen. I just hope that the ladies and gents come home safe.