Dampen your fingers (preferrably with water - she may not appreciate the "sting"). Rub salt through your fingers - it removes most of the burn. Wash well with warm water and soap. Play sticky finger.I would also earnestly entreat one to desist from engaging in sexual relations, as I discovered to my cost (or to be precise, her cost) neither does washing one's hands entirely solve the problem. I suppose one could don gloves but that might be a bit of a turn-off.