Say again all after "bollox"diane_41 said:Before i start it is not his current unit. I have been given the nod from o/h to go ahead with this. Where would i be best sending it to? Concerning the treatment someone has recieved,also would a padre keep a record of who and when he contacted a unit ? I don't like to see people stabbed in the back when 1. They are areomed out of theatre 2. You show concern for your wife 3. If the unit had of been doing the job it was supposed to possibly none of this would of happened.