Background. Seperated in 2008, divorced since May 2009, 2 children. Have been paying CSA @20% net income for 2 children so no worries on the financial front. Didnt see/speak or have any contact with either of my children for approx 16months - even tho i sent letter / emails / cards xmas and birthday gifts... Couldnt afford to go thro the courts etc for contact with kids as ex was saying they no longer wanted "f" all to do with me.....then out of the blue my youngest called me (feb 2011) and told me that they had found my phone number etc in an email in the deleted items on there email account...i have no contact with my ex..all contact is done thro my daughters.. Situation.. since then i have been seeing them on the first weekend of the month, managed to organise a posting closer to where they now live (1 hour away instead of 6 hours!)... they have both been down to stay with me and i have been up to see them every wednesday evening for dinner etc... now the ex is realising that with the renewed contact and the great times we are having she is starting to put "obstacles" in the way.....such as we are all busy that particular weekend and on that wednesday we are off out to see friends etc - you get the picture!?... now as most of you know being in the army and organising time to see your children etc can be somewhat difficult - im not expecting every weekend off to spend with them..also with the operational tempo it is also difficult with various STA courses.. i am seriously contemplating a court order, in order to see my daughters for one full weekend a month and every wednesday evening, until i am deployed again..(deploy on H17) then resumed again once i am back in UK.... does anyone have any info on how i go about applying for this?....and will it cost me? as finances are proper tight at the moment.