Serious post from Robert now. Got an invite to go back to my hometown next weekend from a chick that I used to date back in school days, which by coincidence a couple of weeks ago I went back and gave the good news too. Thing is she has a kid by one of my ex "friends"who is a civi layabout. But now thanks to Rob's powerful pipe she's talking about getting serious, shall I move her up here and take on the sprog? Im in two minds.