Chatting up and leading on

#1
Quick question, just back from a period away on training, a good 200miles from the GF, plenty of evening opportunities for socialising in the nearby town.
My question is, is it wrong or ok to chat up women purely for the ego boost?

Im not talking kissing, groping, declarations of love or anything else; just chatting to a girl as if she had a chance, which other things being equal she would but things arent equal?
It seems to be SOP with most blokes I know, in fact most wouldnt be so restrained, and women do the same thing all the time.
So is it right or wrong or indifferent and if its wrong, who is being wronged?
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#2
However, my question is, is it wrong to chat up women purely for the ego boost without the kissing, groping and declarations of love!

YES

What you playing at? For **** sake, what is the world coming to.... :D
 
#3
spank_the_monkey said:
However, my question is, is it wrong to chat up women purely for the ego boost without the kissing, groping and declarations of love!

YES

What you playing at? For * sake, what is the word coming to.... :D
I totally agree the Monkey on this...
We women would NEVER, EVER, EVER do anythig like this...... :roll:
Shame on yo young man....

Beebs
 

Mr_Fingerz

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#5
You're young, you're a bloke, you're miles away from home, unless you're at the "holding hands and everything" stage, you're technically single. What's the problem????
 

Mr_Fingerz

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#8
So you are at the "holding hands and everything" stage. In which case you either pretend that you're single and deal with the guilt; or you live the life of a monk when you're away from your other half.
 
#14
Your courting techniques are too sophisticated for the likes of me, Imshi Yallah. I am a firm believer in the old-fashioned mating ritual of waiting til ten to 2, and then staggering up to the most desperate looking munter lurking on the edge of the dance-floor, boffing up on her shoes, and then slapping a lip-lock on her. It always used to work in "Boobs" down in Guzz. :D
 
#15
3 year anniversary of what, exactly?

Let's get this straight.

1. You are single
2. Some poor wench puts up with and sleeps with you.
3. You want to inflict yourself on others, whilst at no time risking poor wench's attentions, as she may very well be the only one to WANT to sleep with your sorry arse.

This is easy. Go be single and make poor wench's life worth living by clearing out.

Cowardly all the way around, sir. What a knob.
 
#16
bernoulli said:
Your courting techniques are too sophisticated for the likes of me, Imshi Yallah. I am a firm believer in the old-fashioned mating ritual of waiting til ten to 2, and then staggering up to the most desperate looking munter lurking on the edge of the dance-floor, boffing up on her shoes, and then slapping a lip-lock on her. It always used to work in "Boobs" down in Guzz. :D
Good God Bernie, that is the height of sophisication in Guzz!
 
#17
HellonWheels said:
3 year anniversary of what, exactly?

Let's get this straight.

1. You are single
2. Some poor wench puts up with and sleeps with you.
3. You want to inflict yourself on others, whilst at no time risking poor wench's attentions, as she may very well be the only one to WANT to sleep with your sorry arse.

This is easy. Go be single and make poor wench's life worth living by clearing out.

Cowardly all the way around, sir. What a knob.
No I asked if people thought it was okay to lead on with no intention of proceeding, I never said I would or wanted to.

save your ranting for Trisha for fcuks sake.
 
#18
:twisted: I have no idea who Trisha is you ******.

Yes, you're a moronic little butt wipe that hasn't the stones to figure out which troglodite he prefers.

You've wasted three years of some drooling idiot's time. That's enough. Go dry hump some skank's leg in a bar...
 
#20
My dear chap, all the other posters don't understand you. You are a sensitive new age army person, like myself. Worried about the affect our behaviour may have on an innocent third party. A short moment of joy to oneself could bring untold disappointment and distress upon a female so blatently led on.

On the otherhand if it is female and has a pulse it is there to be fukced. God has even provided for that moment of guilt afterwards; beer.