Hi all, not sure if this is the right place to ask for help, but HELP! Im a serving soldier in the regular army and am currently married. The thing is, i have been seperated for 2 years and am awaiting a decree absoloute as we speak. Even better is i am expecting a child with my new partner, who i cant marry cos im married. The baby is due before the absoloute will be available and despite asking for a Quarter, i have been told there is no chance. I currently have to rent a very expensive flat, (and its through a housing association!) which takes up most of my partners and my wages. When the baby is born i wont be able to afford to live. I have explained all this to my families officer and he says that im not entitled to a quarter, even after my child is born. As soon as my absoloute is through i will be getting married, just so i can afford to live with my partner and child. Is my families office correct? Why should i be forced into a marriage? Surely if i was gay i would get a quarter at the drop of a hat. I appreciate any help on this matter.