• ARRSE have partnered with Armadillo Merino to bring you an ARRSE exclusive, generous discount offer on their full price range.
    To keep you warm with the best of Merino gear, visit www.armadillomerino.co.uk and use the code: NEWARRSE40 at the checkout to get 40% off!
    This superb deal has been generously offered to us by Armadillo Merino and is valid until midnight on the the 28th of February.

Can you find someone from their mobiln no.??

#4
Yes.


Number is stored as a bird, already phoned it and it is a bloke. Before I sort things out and get rid, I want my facts straight so she cant bullshit me.
 

old_fat_and_hairy

LE
Book Reviewer
Reviews Editor
#9
Gears said:
Yes.


Number is stored as a bird, already phoned it and it is a bloke. Before I sort things out and get rid, I want my facts straight so she cant bullshit me.
Ah, that was you on the phone then? Sorry, didn't recognise you. Your missus is right, I am a bird. Just have a deep voice.
 
#10
Tried Googling the number? May sound daft, but if they've attached it to a Facebook profile or let their persec down in some other silly way it could save you hours of arrsing about.
 
#11
Get a female friend to call it and say she's looking for your missus, and while there ask his name.

Mind you, if you're the jealous type who goes looking through his girlfriend's phone to see who she's speaking to and when, she's probably sparing your feelings by coving up the fact that she has male friends she isn't actually sleeping with.
 
#12
milsum said:
Get a female friend to call it and say she's looking for your missus, and while there ask his name.

Mind you, if you're the jealous type who goes looking through his girlfriend's phone to see who she's speaking to and when, she's probably sparing your feelings by coving up the fact that she has male friends she isn't actually sleeping with.
Never been jealous, just something was amiss. I know she has male friends, one of which she has slept with a couple of years previous to our relationship. There are just a few messages I saw that suggested otherwise. Always thought I could trust her, dont know why I went in the messages tbh, just kind of went on auto pilot.

Have openly told her she is free to have as many friends as she likes, Im not her keeper, but something is different about this particular one.
 
#13
Gears said:
milsum said:
Get a female friend to call it and say she's looking for your missus, and while there ask his name.

Mind you, if you're the jealous type who goes looking through his girlfriend's phone to see who she's speaking to and when, she's probably sparing your feelings by coving up the fact that she has male friends she isn't actually sleeping with.
Never been jealous, just something was amiss. I know she has male friends, one of which she has slept with a couple of years previous to our relationship. There are just a few messages I saw that suggested otherwise. Always thought I could trust her, dont know why I went in the messages tbh, just kind of went on auto pilot.

Have openly told her she is free to have as many friends as she likes, Im not her keeper, but something is different about this particular one.

Sorry to hear this fella.. The fact she's hiding some bloke's number in her phone is enough to tell you she's a devious cow and needs getting rid of (by this I don't mean chopped into small chunks and fed to the dog, I just mean told to leave - your honour)
Experience tells me that by the time you've actually found something to start worrying about, it's too late..

Oh and as you probably know all that, no I don't know if you can find someone from their phone number. :)
 
#14
^^ yeah thought it was a long shot trying to find it. Just thought I would ask.

Always fecking trusted her, never stopped her seeing or doing what she wants, dont control her in anyway, just tried to be a loving partner and father to our daughter. Then I find this. Actually made me feel sick when I read the few messages

Oh bollocks, sorry, went a bit girly and emotional there!!
 
#15
Horrors. If something feels off, it probably is. To instantly eliminate those pangs of worry, far better just to casually ask outright, life's too short. If she has any interest in keeping the relationship with you my money would say after the initial grump at being snooped on subsides, she'd expend effort to reassure you.

But as this is the Naafi... bin the scutter, she's probably diddling an ex, and you could do far better. But first call the guy and give him some abuse. You'll feel much better.
 
#16
milsum said:
But as this is the Naafi... bin the scutter, she's probably diddling an ex, and you could do far better. But first call the guy and give him some abuse. You'll feel much better.
Thats why I put it in here not another forum!!

Yeah, tried to ring a few times, to ask for the female the number is under see what comes back from that. Phone rang a few times, went to voicemail, then got cut off, now its turned off

Chop his fvcking legs off if I get hold. Mind, that prob wont do me well before basic!!
 
#18
Gears said:
Always fecking trusted her, never stopped her seeing or doing what she wants, dont control her in anyway, just tried to be a loving partner and father to our daughter. Then I find this. Actually made me feel sick when I read the few messages!
For two pennies more, if some fella is showing her lots of interest, and she's indulging him, doesn't necessarily mean more than that. You could always just ask her if there's a problem, and why she's looking outside the relationship for that sort of thing.

Edited to add, if you're off to basic, you will get lots of skirt whether you like it or not in the next few years. It will do your nut in worrying what she's up to while you're away, if she's doing this while you're here.
 

old_fat_and_hairy

LE
Book Reviewer
Reviews Editor
#20
milsum said:
Gears said:
Always fecking trusted her, never stopped her seeing or doing what she wants, dont control her in anyway, just tried to be a loving partner and father to our daughter. Then I find this. Actually made me feel sick when I read the few messages!
For two pennies more, if some fella is showing her lots of interest, and she's indulging him, doesn't necessarily mean more than that. You could always just ask her if there's a problem, and why she's looking outside the relationship for that sort of thing.
That is very useful and sensible advice. It could be that she is feeling a bit neglected, and that may not neccessarily be your fault; women have strange thoughts that defy male logic. If you are concentrating on your upcoming career, then she may feel left out. Always worth sitting down and having a rational and frank talk.
 

Latest Threads