Hiya guys and girls. I just thought I would get some feedback/opinions/advise on this forum about how people cope when both partners are serving soldiers, especially differing cap badges. My fella and I are in that very boat, me being Royal Signals and him Royal Engineers. Because of his trade, the chances of us ever getting posted together are practically zero, even when we get married. Are there any others out there (in this forum) who are in the same or similar position? How do you overcome it? Have you found any help from chain of command etc? Now please don't give me hassle with the old "deal with it or get out line" as thats not what I really want to hear! Some constructive replies would be greatly appreciated. Cheers everyone, and Happy New Year! regards, Beerkeg!