Oh, I dont know.
My recommendation got a BEM announced today and she thoroughly deserved it.
Traditional boring understated stuff, services to a sport and the local community.
Judging by the social media explosion of congratulations and well wishes to her from said community it has been well received.
She is white, married to a male, a mother of kids and empowering and providing opportunity for men, women and children in her sport. I have never seen her play the victim card on behalf of herself or others.
Much more of the get over it princess school of thought than the woe is me sort.
I feel moderately proud of myself this evening, as very unusually for me I have actually done a good thing.