humphries said:
Everything is basically f**ked up at home and i think i need to be there, but am in week 14 when i go back.
You think you need to be there or you know you need to be there?
Not interested in what exactly is wrong at home, that's your business, but from what I see here, Youre asking how long you can hand your bedding in for, before it becomes 'impossible'
If you're talking in those terms then it's not that bad. Honestly. It might be uncomfortable to be at home.. I dunno.. Family probs.. Mum, Dad, Girlfriend/Boyfriend probs.. which you
think you can alter in some way by being there, but in reality You'd be throwing away a career. Youve passed all the tests to get in, put all that time in getting yourself prepped, done 13 weeks of shite, all to throw it away now?
Dont.
Stick it out (the shite at home..) apply a temporary patch on it as much as you can from your part in proceedings, then head off back to Camp. Speak to your Troop Corporal, ask his advice, then ask to go on and speak to the Staffie and Troop Commander. They'll all offer decent advice, both with knowing you personally (and your own persona / mentality, etc) and will be able to gauge what you do need to do to sort it out.
Youre over 18, but the score's the same. Sometimes people in Training go home on leave spend time at home, find things wrong, especially at Xmas time. It plays on the mind and you think the world's ended. If (whatever) had happened while you were up to your nuts in shite in the middle of an exercise area, chances are you'd be none the wiser and it'd sort itself out without you worrying.
Do a field repair on the situation, Bug out back to Camp, Get the Chain of command to help.
We'd gladly help, however this is an impersonal internet forum, yeah youve got lads on here in the Corps, but we know you as much as you know us. Feel free to use some of us as a sounding board, but ultimately you need to speak to your training command to help properly.