I have done everything I can to make sure that my child is cared for, I have never refused a posting etc but the army is trying to do its best to make sure I quit. I am trying to do what they want but at the mo but it looks like I may be posted twice within 9 months to suit them. I agree that I have the same liabilities as everyone else and I will try not to let force me out, Ihave managed so far for 10 years! I have done everything they want and still I am treated like a hinderanceI just feel like I am a number no longer a person. Dont know how much longer I can cope! What can I do?