Ladies and Gents, I would like some feed back from an incident that happened this weekend. One of my colleagues has told me that I am a horrible horrible man; I disagree and felt like I should try and get some support from the vast experienced, always ready to help arrse members.......... I am ex military working as a civilian for NATO, were I work there are limit chances to empty my bollock gravy except with Pa(l)m and her five sisters. Now a young, quite sweet but slightly psycho RAF girl had taken my fancy, talked a little and ended up bumping uglys with her in her room. Being the gentleman that I am worked hard to ensure that she came first, letting her choose the positions etc, after she came, I thought right now its my turn lets get this baby batter out of my sack and get some sleep, but oh no. She turns over and decides to tell me "Iâm to tired" and "sort yourself out, Iâm going to sleep" Now Gents I know that the majority of the male population, especially squaddies and ex squaddies have done this more than to the female population than they have to us, but what the fukc!!!! Not knowing what to say I let Pa(l)m and her sibling take over and spoffed all over her back. I then got dressed (while she started saying a few strong words), went for a smoke, went to sleep in my room. Now I thought that would be the end of the story, I told the lads (who are also ex military) and after laughing, said that Iâm going to have to find another issued arse warrior to release my man fat into and one of them said that I was a horrible man, I was taken back by this. Am a wrong? Am I a horrible man? Or did I do the only respectable thing.