Having driven 180 odd miles to see "him" yesterday I turn up (to his place for the first time) to a hug and a kiss, great so far me thinks. During my visit he pops up stairs so I take the opportunity to snoop,( ) sorry look around his place, there in the window are his christmas cards. One catches my attention, a rather large expensive card "to someone special". That's not from me! Inside it says "with all my love, S*****" followed by kisses. I didn't mention the card whilst there, no it's much more fun to let it fester for a while On arriving home I text him to say I've arrived safely, several texts later I decide to ask about the card. 3 hours later he replys "he helped out a lady after a car accident". It took him 3 hours to come up with that one?! So do I give him the benifit of the doubt with the possibility that he will rip out my heart or do I walk away?