One of my boys has come to me with this problem, he thinks that his wife is having a fling or had an affair. The problem is his wife has been receiving very suggestive text mesages from another man. She says nothing in it he is just a friend however he has told me some of the content of the messages. One saying "lying in bed thinking of you" at 0800 the day after he moved backed into the block. Her comment was that he was concerned as she was really upset earlier the day before, knowing my lad had moved out. There has been others messages but they have also been having other problems in their marriage which he is also responsible for, but they were working it out. He has said that by the expression on her face when my lad told her his interpretation of the messages, she honestly hadn't seen what was going on and asked her so called friend to calm the messages down but this person has continued to text the wife. The real problem is the wife now understands what the problem is but has told my lad that she still wants to be friends with the other bloke. Apparently she is a very trusting person who can't see the bad in people and will always give them a second chance no matter how much they hurt her. The other bloke has been confronted about this matter and he kicked off at the husband. Now I know the that the husband is no angel he has gambling problems and shit What do i advise him?