Could anybody give advice on how to deal with my daughter. Now the smoking, drinking and going with boys I can understand but this morning I found her putting sugar on her porridge. Now this sort of behaviour is totally unacceptable but I am unsure how I should deal with her. Should I a. Pretend I didn't see it and hope it's just a phase she'll grow out of? b. Hide the sugar in the morning, but this may lead to her stealling to buy sugar. c. Replace the sugar in the sugar bowl with salt? d. Confront her with her crimes? Has anybody else had similar problems with their loved ones, how did you deal with them?