Oh wise, wise ARRSErs I beg for your infinite knowledge and advice in my hour of need! My situation is this, I still live with the parents and I am looking to move out. I live in Essex but work in Camden so my commute takes about an hour. I have been offered by my hairdresser to live with her in her flat for a measley Â£250 a month in rent. My hairdresser is incredibly hot along with her friends who she invites round regularly and I would not hesitate to give her a good seeing to. This aside her flat is in purfleet, which will add an extra 20 mins to my journey every morning and will also cost me a bit more in travel. Not to mention I will actually have to pay for my own food leaving me with less money at the end of the month. To top it all off Purfleet (by all accounts) is a shit hole. What should I do?!