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**DozyBint** · 28-03-2006, 18:07

Originally Posted by Sir Rowley Birkin QC

The answer is simple: Its easier to lie than to hurt.

PS, we don't all do it

Sorry to disagree, but it hurts no matter what - all that lying about it does is show contempt for the intelligence of the woman and add insult to injury.

**Sir Rowley Birkin QC** · 28-03-2006, 18:13

Ah, but I was explaining the motivation rather than the end results which are usually horrible, no matter what. Lying is the cowardly way out - but who can claim bravery all the time.

**Lady_M** · 29-03-2006, 08:08

I agree with Dozybint its better for a woman's self-esteem if the bloke is at least honest and has the bollocks to say why he's decided to walk away and say it to your face...and doesn't just send a text message saying 'sorry it didn't work' when you've packed up your house and your job for him, moved to a new town for him, and slept with him when you haven't slept with anyone for seven years...makes me wonder why men can be so callous and so cruel...

Lady_M

**flowers** · 29-03-2006, 08:41

Originally Posted by Lady_M

I agree with Dozybint its better for a woman's self-esteem if the bloke is at least honest and has the balls to say why he's decided to walk away and say it to your face...and doesn't just send a text message saying 'sorry it didn't work' when you've packed up your house and your job for him, moved to a new town for him, and slept with him when you haven't slept with anyone for seven years...makes me wonder why men can be so callous and so cruel...

Lady_M

Therein lies the issue I think Lady M. He made no 'moves' for you, if it was you who has to do all the changes then it's pretty obvious the chap wasn't interested.

**Lady_M** · 29-03-2006, 11:08

Moderator: I find StabTiffy2B's post extremely offensive...haven't a clue who he is and quite sure I don't know him...but he's slagging me off like he knows me...and he doesn't!! This is the last time I visit this site if thats whats allowed on here........

Lady_M

Mod edit to add: As you can see it is not the kind of post I find acceptable in this forum. ST2B - don't PM me about this post deletion - you should know better by now.

**LordVonHarley** · 29-03-2006, 11:42

Women can be just as cruel as men, that's why I never get into a relationship I can't get out of at a drop of a hat ..... and a new identity/major plastic surgery/ moving country.
I think I may have comitment issues.

**armchair_jihad** · 29-03-2006, 12:16

The best gambit is never to use your real name, one has to concentrate but at the end of a fling it pays off

**susie_q** · 29-03-2006, 21:43

Originally Posted by Lady_M

Moderator: I find StabTiffy2B's post extremely offensive...haven't a clue who he is and quite sure I don't know him...but he's slagging me off like he knows me...and he doesn't!! This is the last time I visit this site if thats whats allowed on here........

Lady_M

Mod edit to add: As you can see it is not the kind of post I find acceptable in this forum. ST2B - don't PM me about this post deletion - you should know better by now.

Lady_M don't take StabTiffy's comments to heart, he's offensive to everybody, I got a load of grief from him and from others when I put my pic on the gallery - water off a duck's back love

**sandmanfez** · 29-03-2006, 22:06

Dont worry Lady M, no one imagines for a moment that you and Stabby are actually acquainted, presumably, he just got lost on his way to the Naafi.
Not everyone was nasty to you in the gallery Susie, I commented that you look like Penny Smith, which in my book, is a compliment.