[quote="Lampoc"]Thread bump because I've got a question that hopefully someone else here has encountered....

I'm a serving SNCO (high band level 4) and have just been nobbled by the CSA (I'm on pre 2003 system) again. Payments have rocketed up to £570 a month for 1 kid. However, they've taken into account the £200 Home to Duty that I get paid every month. Thats my bloody petrol money for getting to work. Can they do this?[/quot


Your petrol money means nothing as does your mortgage, food bills, children from new marriage etc.
Means Feck all to the system, Only money they can't touch is basically if you are on less than a certain income approx £800 a month after that it's open season on your salary.
Pis s and moan as much as you like them's the rules, shouldve kept it in your pants eh!

Plaster - If only she would come to an agreement it would be great, but she knows she'll get more money this way.

Originally Posted by llech

Pis s and moan as much as you like them's the rules, shouldve kept it in your pants eh!

Sorry dude, I didn't realise I was the first person on this Forum to get divorced....

Originally Posted by Lampoc

Plaster - If only she would come to an agreement it would be great, but she knows she'll get more money this way.

Originally Posted by llech

Pis s and moan as much as you like them's the rules, shouldve kept it in your pants eh!

Sorry dude, I didn't realise I was the first person on this Forum to get divorced....

Your not, however the system always wins ( in the end).

great, but it still doesn't answer my original question.

Originally Posted by vampangua

You must, just must, take it like a man and pay up. Otherwise it's your kids you're depriving. Could you look them in the eye when they find out? Good luck with sorting it all out

You c0ck.

You are assuming that a) the mother has them all of the time, b) the mother is paying all of the bills hence him having to make a huge contribution, c, d, e, f and g not even being worth mentioning since you have already jumped all of the way to thinking that it must be the father that is at fault.

C0CK.

I am in a similar boat and have the kids for 3 days a week. Mother tried this and tried to also claim family tax credit. As of today she is liable for a 4.5K over claim on Family Tax and if she tried the CSA route, she would owe me money due to the deficit between the mortgage payments on the home I left her with and what she pays in "upkeep"

"Take it like a man"? What a bell end thing to say when you have no fcuking clue about the circumstance. Or are you just another "life support system for a vagina" that thinks that males should pay for everything?

Lampoc,

They cannot touch your HTD money. When I split from my ex I was living in SSSA and both my FIA and HTD were exempt from the assessement. CSA are only interested in taxable income - HTD is non-taxable and you need it to get you from residence to work.

And for the c0ck who said CSA don't take into account if you are paying the mortgage - oh yes they do, and a whole host of other things as well. For instance if your children are in boarding school and you contribute to the fees, if you still have loans which were taken out for the good and benefit of the family before the split,etc. These will all drive your assessment downwards. My ex got a bit of a nasty shock when they took all my variations into account!

Berlin

Originally Posted by Lampoc

Plaster - If only she would come to an agreement it would be great, but she knows she'll get more money this way.

Originally Posted by llech

Pis s and moan as much as you like them's the rules, shouldve kept it in your pants eh!

Sorry dude, I didn't realise I was the first person on this Forum to get divorced....

you dont think for one min that she gets what you pay to them do you ?
my lad was paying over 400, and his ex was getting 120.. go and tell her that.. even if she says no whats differed?? if yes,,you have your life back.

Originally Posted by plaster

Originally Posted by Lampoc

Plaster - If only she would come to an agreement it would be great, but she knows she'll get more money this way.

Originally Posted by llech

Pis s and moan as much as you like them's the rules, shouldve kept it in your pants eh!

Sorry dude, I didn't realise I was the first person on this Forum to get divorced....

you dont think for one min that she gets what you pay to them do you ?
my lad was paying over 400, and his ex was getting 120.. go and tell her that.. even if she says no whats differed?? if yes,,you have your life back.

As a matter of fact I do think they pass it all on.
I have paid,received, complained about the CSA service, been paid compensation and still talk with my ex.

ALL the money we have paid has been credited in full to our respective accounts.
We may have had issues with some aspects of the CSA operations but failing to pass on money is not one of them.

If what you say is true then get complaining to the CSA, oh, and also check with the banks- you never know what might be going on there!

the lads not paying now thank god,,well at least not as much as he was,,he only see,s the children once a month..
he just pays out now and again with holls ect..but not once in all the time he was paying CSA did the amount paid by him ,went to the ex..

Originally Posted by plaster

the lads not paying now thank god,,well at least not as much as he was,,he only see,s the children once a month..
he just pays out now and again with holls ect..but not once in all the time he was paying CSA did the amount paid by him ,went to the ex..

Was she on benefits?I thought this was the only exeption.

I used to get all of mine,£8.64 per child a week :o They are 19 and 21 now so not that many years ago.